Sunday, March 02, 2008

Update

A movie i would recommend In Bruge staring Collin Ferrel.
Good story line, good comedy, makes you think.

Well anyways, I realized something about the people in this world, they can all be categorized.
The categories are really simple too, everyone even if they know it or not fall into one of these,, including myself.
There is the BRAGGER!
This person feels as if they have to one-up you in everything, from school to life. You say you have something they feel they have to get something better. They constantly tell you about things you don't really want to know about from, "Hey look what i just did isn't this awesome!" And you wanting to be a good person agrees, but inside you are screaming Shut THE F***K UP! But as a good person you are obligated to nod and try to ignore them.
The SELF pitying person!
This person is commonly refer to as EMO! They feel like they have to bring everyone down on to their miserable level. They have to be the cloud that rains on everybody's parade just for some simple attention. They are always fishing for compliments, "man, i feel so ugly today. don't i look ugly" Inside you want to yell "YES YOU ARE UGLY" but being a good person you say, "no, you look good" these people are the most annoying. Their constant complaining makes you not want to hang out with they because you actually want to have a good time.
The TAG-ALONG!
This person wants to go along with you everywhere. They feel the need to follow you everywhere and don't seem to get the hint. They want to hang out but you don't have the heart to tell them to you make up stupid excuses or try to ignore them. "Hey, can i come" or "nice ill be there" but you secretly want to say "um...you weren't invited" but you are forced to say "sure" or "well... we'll see." These people are had to get rid of but once gone they give you a sense of freedom but the truth is they never really go away.
Woops ran out of time!
well i kinda ran out of time but i will post more as they come
People don't get offended we all fall into these categories sometimes, i know there are certain times i have fallen into one of these.
Just try and think about it, and think before you act!
" In the road of life, everybody gets a little shit under their shoes"-Dotun

1 comment:

Mohamed Ali said...

hey Dotun,
I agree with you on the existence of those people, as I also meet them on daily basis. And here's how I deal with it:
1. If I know the person and their reaction well, I'll spit the truth out, and will usually end up being called "you're MEAN!" But I tell myself that I said the truth, and hopefully they learn, but at times that doesn't really help but rather adds problems, so I end up putting myself in a greater "lying" but kind position having to say sorry to the person and that i actually didn't mean any bad, which is usually accepted.
2. when I don't know the person well, i end up "lying" by being kind at first, and that makes them annoying, for then they take you as a toy that will answer these questions all the time.
* I finally realized and concluded that this is just the way we humans are; just seeking any type of care and love we can get by any means, esp in corrupt society today, where many families lack at least a parent, or have one that they're better off without. So, Lets be KIND to all who we see, except those who understand and will take some brotherly truth, and may God be our aid for He's the Kindest and Most Merciful among all.